Dirty talk (sexy talk, naughty talk, etc) is a sex play involving sensual phrasing in order to drive one’s partner or oneself wild through words and imagination to heighten sexual pleasure before and during sex. Through dirty talk you can stimulate your partner’s major senses: sound, sight touch and maybe even taste (depends on what you are into). Lovers use dirty talk as a way of expressing their wants and needs in the heat of the moment.
If done right and at the right time, dirty talk is one of the hottest things you can do for your lover! I mean doesn’t it turn you on when you hear all the naughty things your man or women wants to do to you? Do with you? Do for you? I KNOW we aren’t just speaking for ourselves! Let’s be real, this is one of the best parts about being in the heat of the moment, sometimes we can’t even control what we say because it takes over how we feel!
How to Talk Dirty
Types of Dirty Talk: the soft-core and the hard-core.
The soft-core dirty talk may include sweet nothings, and “not so dirty” phrases and words. The soft-core version is a great way to start. In the beginning it is best to stick with things you are comfortable saying and then gradually add new naughty words and phrases here and there during sex.
We all know that sometimes the simple statements work incredibly well.
“I love the things you do with your tongue”
“You’re the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen!”
“I want you so bad”
“I love the way you touch me”
The hard-core dirty talk could possibly involve swear words. Your lover will find it completely hot if you use them, especially if you don’t usually swear. Talking dirty is like a secret with your sweetheart, a secret that only you two know and enjoy behind closed doors.
“I want to rub my pussy all over your face”
“Spray your juice all over my tits”
“I want you to f*** my brain out. Right now!”
“This is how a real man f*****!”
Dirty talking ways
A great way to sound sexy and dirty is describing out loud what is happening during sex and how amazing it feels to your body. Mentioning a dirty fantasy could REALLY spice things up and get things going; telling your partner something you’re going to do and something you want your lover to do to you will get the heat rising and sexual moistures really going. Give your love an ego boost. Talk about his/her body and tell him/her about your favorite part of his/her body. Be descriptive and creative! That is our favorite part, we really get things going. Especially when you are right in the middle of the moment and say something that can really get the passion going nuts.
“You look so sexy when you wear that”
“You taste sooo good”
“Oh, that feels so good! Do that again and even harder!”
“No one has ever made me come as hard as you”
57 Examples on How to Talk Dirty
1. Tell me all the dirty little things you do when you masturbate, you naughty boy/girl. Tell me everything, baby. Tell me how you play with yourself.
2. Do you like it when I touch myself here?
3. Lie back and shut up! I’m going to make you come until you can’t breathe.
4. Kiss me there… Lick every inch of me.
5. Come over here and ride me hard!
6. Fuck me. Right now!
7. Use me as your toy all night long.
8. Touch yourself and let me watch you.
9. Do you want more? Take it!
10. Give me that come, honey. I want it in my mouth. Come on, give it to me.
11. It drives me crazy when you look at me that way.
12. I’m going to do you right now, honey. Your pussy… or your ass…?
13. Well, you stupid fucker, I won’t let you fuck my ass… So what?
14. Shut the fuck up! I’ll fuck you wherever I want, naughty little whore!
15. I always get what I want.
16. Okay, babe, you can have any hole you want.
17. I love the way it sounds when you fuck me. Hear it?
18. I want you to suck out all the juices you put in me with your mouth.
19. Baby don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that!
20. I’m so fuckin’ wet, just let me suck your sweet lollipop…
21. Put your baby maker inside my hole and fuck my brain out!
22. Just grab my head and force me closer!
23. I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.
24. You can have me any way you want…
25. Get over here, big boy. And show me who’s the boss!
26. Where do you want to come?
27. I want it all over me. Cover me with it.
28. What a sweet sexy ass!
29. Do you like my juicy pussy/big dick? Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.
30. You’re my bitch. I adore how naughty you are. I love you.
31. Babe, you have to follow all my rules tonight.
32. No stops this time. Let’s see how many times I can make you come.
33. Don’t you dare come until I say you can!
34. Maybe you should spank me – I’ve been very, very bad.
35. I want you to undress and wait for me in the bedroom.
36. Get on your hands and knees, sweetheart… and wait like a good girl.
37. Spread your legs wide for me, sweet darling. Your body is mine tonight.
38. You like it when I spread my legs and take you in?
39. I can’t believe what you’re doing! Please do not stop!
40. I love pleasing you and the sounds of your pleasure drive me crazy.
41. You little slut, I’m going to fuck you till you can’t walk! Ready?
42. Fill me up, daddy, fuck my tight cunt! Make me scream with that big dick of yours!
43. Faster! Deeper! Harder!
44. What a hot nasty girl you are! I will wash your mouth out with my cum if you talk dirty, naughty girl.
45. I love how big your cock gets when I talk to you like this.
46. I love sucking your cock. And I’m going to lick it clean.
47. Cum for me baby, cum in my mouth, I want to taste you.
48. I could spend hours between your legs; teasing… sucking; sipping; tasting you.
49. I want you. I want to make love with you. I want to enjoy sex with you. I want to fuck you.
50. Oh, baby, that was the best fuck I’ve ever had. Thank you for that.
51. I like it when you go harder, go faster and harder!
52. I love it when you put your mouth all the way on it, do it again; make me cum that way, you make me so hard.
53. I have never felt your dick so hard!
54. I love putting my finger in your ass, makes me so hard!
55. Let me put it in your ass, I need to feel you again!
56. I want you to tell me when you are about to cum, I want to cum with you!
57. The things you do to me drive me nuts, I am ready to go round II, I need your d*** again, right now.
The Things We Do and Say to Each other
The easiest way to start talking dirty when you’re having sex with your man is to just talk. If your thoughts are sexy, the words will always be dirty. Speak your mind when you’re horny. While having sex, almost all the time, you’d find that there are a lot of naughty things that pass through your head. If you can think it, say it to each other. If you’re aroused, it’s definitely going to sound dirty and be totally worth it to bring it to the next level. Describe your dirty thoughts. Want to arouse each other even before you get to the final act in bed? Whisper what you’d do to each other as soon as you get some time alone, as long as you go into all the intimate details, it’ll always be perfect dirty talk.
Don’t Trash Talk
Don’t trash talk unless you like it and so does your boyfriend or husband. For most guys, moaning unnecessarily or making extremely aroused facial expressions for no reason can be a sexual turn off. DON’T FAKE IT! It may work in the nude movies and Sally might have pulled it off during dinner when “Harry met Sally” but it’s not going to work for every other girl! (Unless acting is your thing and that turns you on but then to each your own!) However, It doesn’t always work in real life.
Talk about Memory
Can you guys always talk about sexy incidents that always turn both of you on? Perhaps, the time when you did it in a public place, or the last time you gave him a road head? Imagining and recreating a sexy memory like the first time you had sex with him or let him fondle your breasts through dirty talk can be extremely arousing and connecting for both of you.
Discover Trigger Words
Find things that you know you can always use when you are in the heat of the moment that always makes things heat up. Some people find cursing to be completely un-arousing, so maybe steer clear from that UNLESS that is your thing, do you! Do whatever makes you guys happy and aroused! If you’re not being authentic or you aren’t comfortable, that will be noticeable and it could totally kill the vibe so be careful with some of the things you guys will say to each other. “Faster,” “harder,” and “more” the one-word directives let him or her know their doing a great job, they are the verbal equivalent of a moan.
When talking to a man…tell him about the sexy moves you want to perform. “It’s easier for women to care-take than to say, ‘Here’s what I want you to do,’” So ease into it by suggesting a move you’ve tried in the past that both of you enjoyed. That way, you know he’ll receive your proposition positively, which can make you feel more confident taking charge.
That Final Moment…
The key is finding out which type of dirty talk works best on your man by experimenting and trying it out in different ways, whether that’s sending him these sexts or dirty messages. Some guys prefer it when you are subtle and even polite with you talk dirty to him while others prefer it when you are super explicit. You don’t always have to be super sexual with what you say, but sometimes subtle phrases keep him thinking about you and right on his frontal lobe.
Remember that there’s no magic formula for R-rated dialogue—one woman may be repulsed by a certain word, while another woman will be all about it. It is really all dependent on both how you guys are together, what you guys like doing together and also how comfortable you feel. Once you start, it will be easy to get into the mood and to grow together. You want to keep it spiced up, you want to keep things sexy and hot so you don’t get bored!
It’s not about the words, it’s really a matter of knowing who you’re talking dirty with and making sure you are on the same page. Because once you go through the vocabulary, you can really cut loose and have fun and that’s really what this whole thing is all about, fun! Making each other feel good by knowing exactly how to talk dirty! That is the most important. We encourage you to take a chance, be brave and do something new! Like mentioned above, spicing it up within your relationship keeps it going and strong. Just be true to yourselves and what you guys are both comfortable with, you don’t want to make things awkward because then you will notice the tension and things will go downhill from there! So, try it and let us know your thoughts. Tell us what works for you?
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